Before I start, I would like to apologize if anyone is discouraged or offended with my doodle.
This is a short story about me.
42 years ago, I was born in Batu Pahat, Johor, Malaysia. I am a foster child who was raised by a fancy family. In the number of family members, I am the third child of four foster brothers.
My father had two wives and my mother was the first wife. In my siblings, I am a very spoiled child with my mother. Whatever my own will be observed, though it is difficult to accomplish. During low school, I was an excellent student in academic and sports. I’m brilliant in football (representing the state), Badminton (representing the state), Hockey (representing the area), Sports (representing districts in 100m, 200m, 400s, long jumps and high jumps) and Ball Baling (representing the state). At the end of 6 year schooling (age 12), I got 19th place out of 65 students.
In Secondary education, I’m just studying in form 3, still excel in sports but lazy in academics. Secondary school, I’m in football (representing the state), Badminton (representing the area) and Hockey (representing the area). But in my academic field I am lazy to learn and always skip school.
When I was 16 I left school because of my interest in working. My first job was as a third assistant chef at a seafood restaurant. I worked at the restaurant for 2 years and 10 months, so I was the second cook in the restaurant.
I stopped at the restaurant because I did my habits in high school, like truancy. After quitting, I spent a lot of time in the center of the snooker. Almost a year I did not work and just hang out in the snooker center by searching for money by inviting a bet on the snooker game. While here I know a friend who changed my way of life. I started studying drinking, smoking marijuana and dislike young women.
When I was 19, I applied to work as a cinema assistant. My job just keep the door of the cinema. After 6 months of work, I applied for a Tecnision Assistant and I was admitted to the field. During the year I held the Assistant Tecnision, and I was promoted to the Head of Tecnision 1 when I was 21 years old. I am the youngest Tecnision chief in the history of the Golden Screen Cinimes company at that time.
When I visited a branch office to teach Tecnision there, I met my mate, my wife now. He is the man who has changed my way and my life to become human. I mean, before, I was very wild and difficult to control. I tie the engagement strap for 2 years. My engagement was 2 weeks, my foster father who raised me has gone to the world because of the bacterial infection.
Shortened the story, I am a hard-to-guess, temperate, lazy and painful person. Thanks to the patience of my fiancee, she has changed me a lot. My mother and my late father could not change my temperament but my wife is now the person who is responsible to change me.
Throughout my previous life, I had no financial savings and I also had no property.
After my marriage with my wife, then I knew how much responsibility was a family leader. I remember the words of my father, mother, brother and brother who often rebuked me to learn to save and be responsible.
I was given a child in my second year of marriage. At that point, my life changed. I need to find additional income because my family members have grown. Various of my extra work do to increase my income. After 11 months, my wife is holding her second child Syukur Alhamdulillah. During my 10 month old daughter, my mother died, a blow to me because the place where my spouse was gone. Two weeks later I was depressed and sad, my wife who helped me a lot. My first child, woman and I want this second, if possible male.
Syukur Alhamdulillah, God fulfills my wishes for a son. We are just planning, God who determines everything. I received the biggest guess in my life, my second child was Disabled (Persons with Disabilities). Surely I’m lucky to be elected to raise it. I’m happy with the terms.
After 4 years, my 5 years old and my 4 years old, I was given the third child of a woman. My responsibility is greater because my family members have grown.
When I was working, I held 1 more position as a football team coach. I have the Trainer Class “C” FAM? AFC coach. Many likes and grief become a college coach. Ever got 4th place in the Regional league, 8th-Place Championship, to Semi-Finals Between Se-Malaysia College and District League Semifinals. My Excellence became a College Coach, I was awarded the Coach for the Under-20 Team for the State Level Competition. I hold the post for 3 years. Not much success in 3 years, only in the semi-finals and I can produce some talented players to be absorbed into the State Team, Johor Darul Ta’zim – JDT. In Malaysia, JDT forces are the strongest. For 5 years in a row won the Malaysian League. After 3 years of serving under the Under-20 Coach, I was promoted to District-level Coach Selection chairman when I was 40 years old. My job is to choose a Coach for Under 20 & 28 teams for regional and State level competitions.
By the time I was 38 years old, my wife had a fourth child. Syukur Alhamdulillah, my wife is safe to give birth to a perfect baby boy. Even when my school was active in sports, I was suffering from Athma’s disease. When I was 41, I was a road accident, I was seriously injured. My ribs no 4 to 6 broke. I can not do the heavy and hard work because of these injuries and my Athma disease.
With me without savings, I have to find more income to support my family.
But I’m so grateful that I’m still breathless for life. And the journey of my life right now, Wife and children are giving me the strength to work.
Teaching my story, listen to the advice of our parents, our brother, our brother, the save will help us when we need, save us, be grateful, cherish our loved ones and work hard. Hopefully there will be no more human beings like this and if so, immediately change as long as it has not been missed. I also hope that my life story has nothing to hear anyone, only my story. If there is any similarity, I apologize if something is offensive.
Make this my story a lesson, though it has not failed in life, but troubles others. Make a guide on reading, a guide to success. Remember the most important, Prayer and prayer do not stay (for the Muslims), respect the parents, always be grateful and do not be easily discouraged.
Again I apologize if I have a language barrier or mistaken words, which can offend readers’ feelings. The good comes from God S.W.T and the bad comes from myself. Thank you for taking the time to read my life story.